Happy World Breastfeeding Week

Before we dive into World Breastfeeding Week—as well as National Breastfeeding Month—let’s start with two important reminders:

First: Whatever feeding journey you’ve chosen for your family is valid, and it is enough. Whether you’re breastfeeding, pumping, using formula, or some combination of all three—you’re doing what’s best for your baby. And that makes you a good mom.

Second: Pumping is breastfeeding. There’s been a lot of chatter on social media lately questioning whether exclusive pumping “counts” since it’s not straight from the source. Let’s be clear: it absolutely does.

Based on the data: (as of yesterday), I have completed 2110 pumping sessions, totaling 1,034 hours (that’s 43 full days) and producing ~23,894 ounces of milk. According to ChatGPT, that equates to 477,871 calories burned and can be estimated to be worth $28,672.

So far, we have donated 9,145 ounces of our stash to the Mother’s Milk Bank of SC to help fellow NICU babies just like Parker. This has helped feed 370 NICU babies. 

We have also given 1000 ounces via private donation and we’ve been paid $5,665 donating 6,071 ounces to Tiny Treasures. 

More recently, every single day I’ve wanted to quit. I could just stockpile the rest of my stash to get Parker through her first birthday. But then I think of every mom who wanted to breastfeed and couldn’t. I think of every NICU baby that we are helping with our donations. And I think about how great it has been to bring some financial support to my family after losing my identity to being a stay at home mom. Plus it doesn’t hurt that I feel feel comfortable in my body for the first time in a long time. So I’m going to keep trucking along until the tap runs dry.

Check out my other two pumping posts here:
Squeezing Out Success
Milk It for All It’s Worth

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Happy 10 Months Parker!

Princess Parker is 10 months old today!

This morning, Parker measured in at 18 lbs 3 oz and 27.25 inches long. She now weighs about as much as a whole watermelon and stretches nearly the length of an acoustic guitar body—fitting for our music-loving little girl.

We’re making some big medical moves in Q3. Parker graduated from weekly to biweekly physical therapy visits—a big sign of her strength and progress. Our goal for August is to come off the EleCare fortifier at her dietitian appointment. Then in September, when she turns one, we’re hoping her cardiologist will let her stop the Propranolol. We’re inching closer to the day when Parker’s care team is just… Mom and Dad.

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Monthly Reading Recap {June 2025}

Turning the page on another month of reading.
Here’s what I finished in June…

Long gone are the days of reading 10 books within one month, but I am promising myself to get through at least one a week. With less overnight pump sessions, I’ve had to change the way I read. I’ve made a new rule to read for at least 30 minutes after Parker goes down, before I turn on the TV. Better yet, if it’s a nice day, I move myself to the front porch to rock. I’m still trying to plow through my random collection of Lisa Gardner books. I don’t think I’ve read any of the series in order at this point but it doesn’t mess up the flow too bad.

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Happy 9 Months Parker!

Princess Parker is 9 months old today!

She now weighs 17 lbs 6 oz and measures 26.5 inches long — more than four times her birth weight and over half a foot taller than her tiny 4 lb 3 oz, 19-inch NICU debut.

She had a big checkup last week. The hole in her heart (an atrial septal defect, or ASD) is still there. All babies are born with an opening between the top chambers of the heart — hers is just taking its sweet time to close. Her cardiologist isn’t concerned and plans to give it another year before reassessing. We also found out she has something incredibly rare (seen in only about 0.05% of the population): a quadricuspid aortic valve, meaning her valve has four flaps instead of the usual three — shaped like a little four-leaf clover. Of course we’ve always known she’s a lucky charm, but this just makes it official.

Parker’s officially on the move. She’s crawling full speed ahead, pulling up on everything she can reach, pivoting between pieces of furniture, and even balancing for a few seconds before falling over. We’ve already lowered her crib mattress two notches — because instead of sleeping, she prefers to stand up and scream until her heart rate spikes high enough that we give in and rescue her. She just doesn’t want to miss a thing, especially those front porch hangs.

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Happy 8 Months Parker!

Princess Parker is 8 months old today!

This morning she weighed in at 16 lbs 3 oz with a height of 26 inches. That’s nearly quadrupling her birth weight and growing a little over half a foot since her tiny 4 lb 3 oz, 19-inch debut.

Even though she’s technically only an adjusted 6.5 months old (due to her preemie status), Parker’s keeping up with her milestones like a champ — just in a much smaller package. She’s still rocking 3–6 month clothes (only at our insistence), because she can still wear many of her newborn and 0-3 month outfits, especially if the footies are convertible.

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Monthly Reading Recap {April 2025}

Turning the page on another month of reading.
Here’s what I finished in April…

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Happy 7 Months Parker!

Princess Parker is 7 months old today!

Parker Evelyn continues to grow, glow, and keep us endlessly entertained. She is now a little over 3.5x her birth weight at 15lbs, and is 24.5” long— petite but mighty, with all the sparkle packed into a small frame. This past month, her little personality has really taken off — equal parts silly, sweet, expressive, and opinionated. She’s always watching, learning, and letting us know exactly how she feels. She is joy in motion — a tiny, determined rainbow who keeps rewriting the rules and dazzling us as she grows.

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